Does Love and Trusts Persists at the Cost of Finding Attacks on Self Esteem?

Human Psyche and Low Self Esteem

There is a big question in my mind right from my conscious childhood as I was a kid with countless thoughts and ideas. For me being oversensitive and thoughtful about “Human Relationships” and the Complexities that are associated with it were monstrous. I heard at an early age that those who LOVE and Care will not damage anything to the core. This description of LOVE has never found a space in my Heart!

If someone loves you so much and cares for your well being, prosperity and success. Then why he or she would do any sort of damage. He or she must be your “guiding star”, and a shoulder to give to give you comfort of Heart, Mind and Soul. So it is not realistic according to me as I have seen various cases where I have seen the closed ones are ruining the Self Esteem and Integrity of a Person!

It is another case as if those who do damage know it intentionally or do it as an impulsive action. I am not a person who likes to live in Pessimism, and on the contrary I am always ‘Hopeful’ and try to boost Self Confidence and Positive Thinking amongst my readers and social friends. But the irony of situation is that the Bad or Negative Remarks and Actions by Immediate Family, Close Friends or Beloved hurts us more that the distant relations and people who do not take part in our lives!

So the Motivation Factor behind every “Successful Person” is the fact that they are Optimistic and live is Soulful Peace. I am not talking about acclaim at the cost of anything but I do consider that we can never ignore that fact that “Human Beings” no matter how strong they look need some comfort zones and pacifying personalities and gestures in their lives.

I wonder at times as why we do not think twice while passing out comments in our family or friend’s circle. We take advantage that we are close and the person in target will not mind. But sometimes the Heart and Soul of a Person are so sensitive that it breaks up with a single word. 

So we need to spread the message of peace and love. We must try to give comfort to others with our actions and words as much as possible, and I think it must be the top priority of every person on Earth. There would be an unimaginable BLISS All Around, and we will find Worldly Heaven right here in front of us!!

Cleverness is a Good Quality or Bad One!!

Clever People can Spread Optimism

Most of times, I do wonder what is the reality of human psyche and how people spend their short terms on this world. Do they spend it positively or keep on planting negative seeds for others. What is the real impulse behind all EVIL Deeds that People do for others? I am on a continuous Research on this, and unfortunately I haven’t reached at a conclusion!

Now I have another query in mind as if a Clever Person is having a “Natural Bliss or a Curse”. I am really not going to be convinced of what the meaning of being CLEVER is, and what is the difference between a clever and a smart or intelligent person. I think a clever person keeps on looking at the surroundings and finds a safe passage to implement his ideology by hook or crook. 

On the other hand a Smart Person with best IQ and EQ level tries to turn things in his favor but not at the cost of ruining others. They believe in Motivation and Optimism, and how to fight away anxiety and daily life’s stresses. But they follow a positive and rightful path, to go on a long journey of SUCCESS. Life is never easy for most of people on Globe but it is smart choice to tackle the difficult situations, in a way to live a happy, peaceful and prosperous life!

Life gives every person different tests and trials, and it is all predestined to some level. So a person who works with clear mind deals with difficult situations in a clear headed way. He or she will make choices that are really necessary to go on a path of Growth and Success. But they will never like to disturb to destroy other mentality. So they are smart, intelligent and clever in a rightful way. It is all good and one needs to be in this way in present times!

But a search for freedom and prosperity for the sake of ruling observe others, and to think that we can rule and ruin others for our benefit. But this kind of thinking pattern only leads to Negative Mind-set, and to produce evil ambitions. No sane person in the world can endorse such negative cleverness.

So I ask you to see the global scenarios and try to pick up different situations, and discuss on this platform which action of an individual or a state is clever devices of infusing bad vibe around. It might not be true that people or nations who claim to be Human Rights Activists, and they are doing all kinds of damages to Humanity and to World’s Peace and Prosperity which we can easily move forwards as a whole human Species!!