Does Love and Trusts Persists at the Cost of Finding Attacks on Self Esteem?

Human Psyche and Low Self Esteem

There is a big question in my mind right from my conscious childhood as I was a kid with countless thoughts and ideas. For me being oversensitive and thoughtful about “Human Relationships” and the Complexities that are associated with it were monstrous. I heard at an early age that those who LOVE and Care will not damage anything to the core. This description of LOVE has never found a space in my Heart!

If someone loves you so much and cares for your well being, prosperity and success. Then why he or she would do any sort of damage. He or she must be your “guiding star”, and a shoulder to give to give you comfort of Heart, Mind and Soul. So it is not realistic according to me as I have seen various cases where I have seen the closed ones are ruining the Self Esteem and Integrity of a Person!

It is another case as if those who do damage know it intentionally or do it as an impulsive action. I am not a person who likes to live in Pessimism, and on the contrary I am always ‘Hopeful’ and try to boost Self Confidence and Positive Thinking amongst my readers and social friends. But the irony of situation is that the Bad or Negative Remarks and Actions by Immediate Family, Close Friends or Beloved hurts us more that the distant relations and people who do not take part in our lives!

So the Motivation Factor behind every “Successful Person” is the fact that they are Optimistic and live is Soulful Peace. I am not talking about acclaim at the cost of anything but I do consider that we can never ignore that fact that “Human Beings” no matter how strong they look need some comfort zones and pacifying personalities and gestures in their lives.

I wonder at times as why we do not think twice while passing out comments in our family or friend’s circle. We take advantage that we are close and the person in target will not mind. But sometimes the Heart and Soul of a Person are so sensitive that it breaks up with a single word. 

So we need to spread the message of peace and love. We must try to give comfort to others with our actions and words as much as possible, and I think it must be the top priority of every person on Earth. There would be an unimaginable BLISS All Around, and we will find Worldly Heaven right here in front of us!!

Hope has NO Wings!!

Hope and Dreams

World is full of false dreams and emotions that deviate us from the path of self-discovery. We HOPE for things that do not exist in real life or not meant for us. But who asks us to look for such things? Yes! Our surroundings and our love to gain as much out of this world! But I can’t generalize this rule to everybody. I have seen with my own eyes many people who have lived selflessly in this world of materialism.

I have not seen a single soul around who can say that every hope and desire has fulfilled. Only those who live a life of denial and leaving away all emotions and worldly goals can say it. I mean the Mystic Souls. Yes they are really the people who want to gain nothing from this material world but want an eternal peace. Here I know that lots of thinkers and philosophers have tried to understand the minds of Spiritually Elevated People.

They are not successful as they consider them insane though most of philosophers are truly like that. So it is not a new phenomenon to discard those facts that we are not able to understand. Here I am justified to say as if Hope has wings then Everybody would have been flying over heads of others. So Nature has given us limitations and obstructions to feel that we are as fragile as others in the world!!

If there would have been wings to HOPE then it could fly over all its wanderers, and give peace to everyone. But there is no reason to be disheartened when we lose something. It must be a source of Motivation and to be More Optimistic, and try harder to attain that level of Success and Glory.

I love to remain in Utopia if it is as and it makes me peaceful and my Soul rests in great peace. So I love to dream about good days when passing through tough times. I am firm that everybody can get this approach, and then LIFE would be all peaceful and with lots of significant ideas and thoughts to make our Future better. Which is a depressive or Hopeless situation people forget to look into!!