Platonic Love Exists Somewhere??

 

Love and Human Psyche

I am student of literature and I kept on reading different things that are discussed here and there. Most of times it is not a case as ideal that literary people have presented us. Like I would share my thoughts as what is “Platonic Love” and how to explain it in modern terms. If you tell me about literary way then it is a description by a famous philosopher Plato. It tells a mental state when a person is in love with other one without having a desire to acquire him or her physically.

Platonic Love means a love that involves Soul Connection, and it has nothing to with material gains, outward beauty and to get any kind of benefit. So it is really an important aspect of Human Psyche and it must be in the world sometime. But at this moment, I cannot find that this philosophy does not work right here at the moment!

Now the whole world has changed and it becomes only a clichéd statement that a person can love without expecting anything. Here the human psyche has changed and we love to be loved, and to get benefit in one way or other. Either we feel the comfort of having someone who adores us and can give us something like love, compassion and a TIME for sure. Now the soul connection and just keep on thinking about a beloved is no more payable.

It is a world of quick actions, responses and demands. Now no one wants to be in love with someone who cannot give him or her anything. Now Love is a matter of give and take, and people have no time to spend in thinking and living in dreams. Modern worlds has snatched the innocent and pure forms of love and even a simple way of life!

It is a tragedy in itself as we are not realizing its drastic dangerous effects. We are losing the concerns and bonding that our ancestors used to have. Asking anyone to date or to have a one night stand won’t give anyone real happiness, and it eventually turns out into loneliness and desperation, and off course depression. Is it possible that we can develop purity in relationship, and I am leaving to my respectable audience to guide me in this context!!

Passions and Desires to Live New Year Like Our Resolutions!

 

Desires and New Year Resolutions

Sometimes it looks quite strange that we keep on passing through corridors of life without doing anything extraordinary. We are just on a run for money, machines, luxury, love that is not completely defined yet. We need to know as what we are losing with each passing year as we keep on making New Year Resolutions on every December 31^st. Do we really make practical resolutions or objectives or just keep on filling our empty souls with new colorful waters!

It is something that haunts me when I see so many people excited about the ceremonies and parties of New Year. From where we get all that fervor, passion and desires to make some goals as our New Year Resolutions. Don’t you think that each day when we wake up is a blessing, and that we have to make a resolution to live that very MOMENT without Regrets of the Past and Worries of the Future!

Nobody has ever seen his or her future and so we cannot erase anything from our past. So live the Present Moment with all Passion and Desire to make it a Wonderful Time. Love is not bind to exist for showing off at New Year or Valentine Day. It can be in hearts for all the seasons and days, and we can show it to the ones we desire to show without wasting ant Precious Moment. The Desire to Show LOVE gives us Motivation and Positive Energy, to go for the unseen and undone in the Past Year!

When you are determined to show you love and affection for your loved ones then go a second deal for it. Never comply your emotions for particular days as who knows it might be too late. When you feel something to express then do it right now. Love your Freedom of Expression and Enjoy the Optimism to reach out for your long desired things that you wanted to do for someone!

Love is unconditional and so the TIME for it, and then a New Sun that Rises on New Year means 1^st of January is just a Symbolic Representation by Nature and Divinity, to go for the long desired endeavors. So go for the beast thing around, and love this feeling that you have that passionate heart, mind and soul to feel something special for others, and you are able to express it to them. As here is this very world there are so many people who do not find anyone to express even s single phrase or a gesture of affection and love!! 

Thoughtless Mind!!

Mind and Soul at Peace

Sometime it happens to every sane person in life that he or she does not know what to think in real. It is time for the real understanding of the problems that exist in the SOUL and Mind of that person. Sometimes it is too necessary to keep a vigilant look at what is happening in our lives, and how we can cope with the difficult situation. If it happens in individual or collective lives of any nation. Every painful scenery is worth a silence and it needs to be given a proper respect.

But seeing so many innocent children dead in a coward act of Terrorism in Pakistan has just shook my soul. I cannot imagine anything and not even think of good things and places. I cannot dream of great future of Humanity as I have seen the worst case scenarios that make me feel all empty headed, and think on a pessimistic note about our own future.

What is the real matter of going for all this technology advancements and progress when it can shatter at any moment? When we are losing our kids who would create the great FUTURE then we are left with no option to mourn over insanity that the world is going onto. We have developed such weapons of mass destruction, and the ones that can destroy a whole nation in a far off land. Here are Chemical and Biological weapons produced by developed countries, so why we talk about humanity and make human Rights Organizations!

Making huge castles in the air is always very easy, and same is the case with pronouncing great Principles and Fundamentals of Human Sanctity. But Life does not give those people a chance who want to take advantages of weaknesses of others. The manipulation and overpowering over armless and common people is very easy. It can happen through Great Media Hype, and even creating a whole fuss about something that is a kind of Non-existent Reality!

Being a normal human being with emotions and a desire to see peace and prosperity on this planet EARTH. I like to see people getting out of small or big prejudices, racial and religious differences. The philosophy of “live and Let Live” is so much true, only if we really implement in our personal and social lives. We can be the practitioners of the same fundamental for all the people in the world with Equality and Justice, to make this world a piece of Heaven!!

Does Love and Trusts Persists at the Cost of Finding Attacks on Self Esteem?

Human Psyche and Low Self Esteem

There is a big question in my mind right from my conscious childhood as I was a kid with countless thoughts and ideas. For me being oversensitive and thoughtful about “Human Relationships” and the Complexities that are associated with it were monstrous. I heard at an early age that those who LOVE and Care will not damage anything to the core. This description of LOVE has never found a space in my Heart!

If someone loves you so much and cares for your well being, prosperity and success. Then why he or she would do any sort of damage. He or she must be your “guiding star”, and a shoulder to give to give you comfort of Heart, Mind and Soul. So it is not realistic according to me as I have seen various cases where I have seen the closed ones are ruining the Self Esteem and Integrity of a Person!

It is another case as if those who do damage know it intentionally or do it as an impulsive action. I am not a person who likes to live in Pessimism, and on the contrary I am always ‘Hopeful’ and try to boost Self Confidence and Positive Thinking amongst my readers and social friends. But the irony of situation is that the Bad or Negative Remarks and Actions by Immediate Family, Close Friends or Beloved hurts us more that the distant relations and people who do not take part in our lives!

So the Motivation Factor behind every “Successful Person” is the fact that they are Optimistic and live is Soulful Peace. I am not talking about acclaim at the cost of anything but I do consider that we can never ignore that fact that “Human Beings” no matter how strong they look need some comfort zones and pacifying personalities and gestures in their lives.

I wonder at times as why we do not think twice while passing out comments in our family or friend’s circle. We take advantage that we are close and the person in target will not mind. But sometimes the Heart and Soul of a Person are so sensitive that it breaks up with a single word. 

So we need to spread the message of peace and love. We must try to give comfort to others with our actions and words as much as possible, and I think it must be the top priority of every person on Earth. There would be an unimaginable BLISS All Around, and we will find Worldly Heaven right here in front of us!!