Life and Love is All About Share Care and Forgiveness of Small Mistakes!

 

 Love and Life depends on Share and care of Emotions

When you are going through different phases of life then you might not think as how to get time for peace and lovable things in life. When you are going through some situations then you need to see how hard you can fight with odds, and how you can find your time for peace, love and serenity. If you want "Motivation" and "Peace of Mind" then you need to show Love and Compassion to others around. As it is not one sided thing for sure!

Most of times, it is not a good thing to know what are things that matter in our lives. It is not going to be a great thing that makes you feel lonely and desperate. But you see that love is an aroma and it can make you feel all “Special and Wanted” in this World by Group of People. So it is highly necessary that we need to share and care for other person’s feelings, and to forgive small or bigger mistakes of others as well. The human nature might be having lots of flaws but we need to forgive others to get it back by ourselves!

Love needs no explanation and it spreads like an Aroma around, and when you are in such emotional stat then you can forgive and forget lots of things. This is in fact a beauty of LIFE and you need to see other person’s perspectives and perceptions, in order to understand their Emotional Crises and their Needs and Wants. So the Beauty of Love and Caring is that it can easily heal the wounds of SOUL, and then a great cure or remedy of all internal illnesses!

Actually it is too more than a cliché that Love is Unconditional and it does not need any expectations, and the problems arise when we start expecting from others about returns. It becomes a selfish approach, and then the whole world seems to destroy in front of us if the other one is not able to fulfill what we perceive he or she can do!

Similarly we expect so many things from God Almighty, and never think that we as Human Beings do fulfill our obligations and duties that He has imposed on us. I think the Divine Love is more than a matter of expectancy but it is a general Human Psyche that tells us to go for filling up our LOVE for the Omnipresent God, and then not expecting anything in return is what leads us to elevate path of Spirituality and Eternal Success!

Life is Full of Dreams and Heartbreaks but We Need to Carry on Forward!

Unfulfilled Dreams and Hopes for Future

When we are facing some mysterious but serious issues in life then we have a whole shift in thinking mechanism. We try to find fault within us or in the environment around us. So you need see on objective thing in LIFE and that is your own Commitment and Motivation to grow yourself, and to be above ordinary difficulties and troubles. You can never win an argument with Divine Will, and it is best to surrender yourself in front of Fate!

Here I am not telling you to stop making goal objectives or try to be hopeful for good things. I am also totally in favor of all struggle and hard work that is really necessary to do tasks that you want to do. But I am not teaching you to be insecure and be a Pessimist after any Small or Big Failure. So you need to be strong enough to handle crises situation, and to identify you own problems. If you know that the fault does not lie in your action then search the hurdles in the relationships and environment around!

Even if you are not able to find any resultant factor that contribute to your desired accomplishment of your GOALS. You can see it as a test and a preparation for other issues and challenges that go along with life of every Human Being. It might be a test of your Motivation and Optimism. If you are Spiritually Strong and know how to keep a good control of your nervesthen you will find both Worldly and Eternal Success for sure!

I wonder how people keep on blaming themselves for some wrong decisions even they wanted everything positive for themselves and for others as well. A failing deed performed with the intention of giving out relaxation and HAPPINESS to others is worth a deal, and it is all positive. You need to see something really strong as the Soul Satisfaction, and the Desire to go ahead even if you have faced the worst kinds of failures and heartbreaks. 

It is for your love relationship, marriage, family bonding, and friendship, and even for professional goal attainment. You need to stay focused of Success and Glory in Future. You can stay active and healthy both mentally and physically only if you are not struck to a shock after each failure or heartbreak in other words. Leave the situation in a way, and pray and work hard for the coming days to be in your favor. You will regain all Positive Vibes, Stimulation and Optimism to do your best job of lifetime!!

Little Things of Life that are Motivational and Thought Provoking!

Emotional Gaps and Modern Life

Most of times, we keep on looking at the big things and ignore the small facts about life. We are not going to be in a state of appraisal for our own good deeds, and even think about doing something for HUMANITY. If we lose our Hopes and Desires for one thing then we can get on a thought to provoke something motivational and positive in us. We are born to die and what is wrong if we keep on doing well for ourselves, and for others in a way!

We are too much busy in planning our bigger goals and forget about small things like planting a small tree on a roadside. It will grow up one day and will give shade to people. If it is a fruit tree then so many people will get benefit out of it. We do not write for some positive purposes to inculcate a sense of mutual responsibility among human beings. We can show a small gesture that can make a child laugh, and it is too rewarding.

I feel that it is not a fault of modern life and busy schedules. Actually we have started to lose connection with other Human Beings with an excuse of being busy. What is worth of giving a little quality TIME to Old People? We can go and spend some time, even at weekends at an old home and give them company. If we have Old Parents then why do not we share our Emotions and Bonding to them, and then there is something more than just a gift or a card that we can show them Compassion and LOVE. 

If you ask me about the Motivational Things that are Thought Provoking for others then we can place a pot with grains or water for small birds. Life is just too little to waste time in giving or receiving negative vibes or to remain in a state of FEAR. What is wrong in spreading the message of "Love" and "Freedom" to others as well!

So to make this world a place closer to Heaven we all need to work, and to keep a closer look at what humanity is losing at a bigger end. The world is leading us to go for gadgets, and to fight for more battles but I love to see a positive race of doing small deeds of goodness for others. Your small gestures may lead others to a thought provoking process of spreading a message of peace, love and compassion all around!!

Suicide is a Desire, Environmental Pressure or a Neurotic Disorder?

Loneliness, Depression and Suicide Trends

It has been a center of debate between experts of Sociology, Psychology and Philanthropy as what are the reasons of Suicides in the World. Why it is rising with the availability of more luxuries and comforts? It is a matter of deep concern as what is the real causes that make a person go for an action of taking his or her own Life. We all are striving for the best of things in life then why certain people stop believing in good things and lose Hope!

I am in search of finding some of the main causes that are discussed by renowned Social Philosophers like “Durkheim” and others as well. The things that bothers me as I look at the trends of suicide rates in developed countries, and the ones with highest Social Security Provisions like Sweden, Norway, Japan, Canada. It seems more of an isolation and a distance between human beings.

The Suicide Action in Poor or Third world Countries seems to be very much related with Poverty, Hunger, Injustice, Social and Cultural Taboos. So it seems an escape from problems and issues, and it is a far more different criteria than the Suicide Rate of the West. 

We have seen the cases of Marlin Monroe, Heath Ledger and a famous German Football player who threw himself in front of running train a few years back. Did they suffer from poverty or financial issues? No! They were pretty sound in these matters, and they have all fame and fortune that the World Desires For!!

So the matte comes into the limelight of Psychologists who have found out that it is a Genetic Disorder, and a hormonal imbalance that makes some people prone to Suicidal Tendencies. But this is not always the case and I agree that certain cases exists when a severe Depression and Anxiety Disorder results in people taking off their lives!

So the never ending debate comes to a thing that nobody wants to take off his or her life as a Desire, but it is mostly the distance of man to man that makes one feels so lonely! We have stopped sharing and caring for others, and forget to think about the issues and miseries of our closed ones. 

They want our time and concerns but we are in a bandwagon of struggle for Material Gains, and to get new levels of Success in Worldly Status. So we are losing Precious Human Beings for the sake of decaying worldly things, and it is a great tragedy!!