Showing posts with label Prayers. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Prayers. Show all posts

Sunday, 14 December 2014

Love Your Self Esteem and Value Your Freedom of Thoughts and Actions!


Motivation and Courage to Boost Self Esteem and Find Success

It is too much overstated that each human being needs freedom of speech, action and dictation by others. But we have hardly seen anything in particular that determines the desire of human beings to give that FREEDOM to others! So it is a matter of choosing your own existence, and to fight hard battle for retaining and even boosting your Self Esteem. You can compromise on petty matters like getting low salary or increments. You can even ignore the negativity that lies in hearts and minds of others but never compromise of “Your Self Esteem”!

Once you are set to protect your personal sanctity and self-esteem then you will do it at all costs. You don’t have to be like a hard rock, to win your presence in the world around. Just be yourself and always go with your Gut Feelings. Never stop your statements that are based on Truth and cause something quite vibrating in air. Keep in mind that all positive and truthful sayings create a sense of irritation, loud anger and hatred amongst those who are never fair while dealing with others.

Having a sound Self Esteem is your real asset, and do not lose it for the sake of making someone unhappy or to hear some loud statements. It needs to be done at the right moment, and to counter everything with positivity and optimism. Do not let yourself swayed with “Emotions” and always try to be Logical and on the Ground Reality when you are presenting your case or Point of View. It is your basic right as a Human Bering on the face of the Earth. Make a simple question to yourself as if you like to be humiliated at the cost of other person’s “evil pleasures”!

I am sure that nobody wants to get any bad or insulting remarks from others, and for those crimes that he or she has never committed. So it is your basic right and in fact more of a duty to safeguard your own personal identity and your Self Esteem. It is am way to let lose your own rope of Freedom of Thoughts and Actions for all kinds of Worldly Activities.

Here I would like to share another side of boosting your self-esteem. If you believe on presence of Omnipresent God and Religion, and then on Luck and Prayers. Then you must have realized that every time you talk to “God Almighty” then you feel a ‘Spiritual Elevation’ and ‘Satisfaction’. Your Soul is lighter and you feel more comfort in facing even the bigger challenges of LIFE. 

Only if you believe in Afterlife, and the fact that your actions, thoughts and social dealings are traced and judged at some other level.  You will try to find bigger meaning to life and to solve grand equations of human joys and sorrows in this worldly life. It will automatically boost your trust to say Truth and to try to live with Real Boost in Self Esteem!!

Friday, 28 November 2014

Unconditional Love is Something Far Fetched in the World!



Unconditional Love and Peace of Mind
I have often heard that people keep on saying that they love others without expectations. Though it is a very good thinking pattern, and a healthy one. But Unconditional LOVE exists quite rare in the world. Actually Human Psyche needs to have different Emotional Gaps that could be filled out with the presence of others in their lives. If the relationships are healthy then it keeps them at a high level of Motivation and Optimism!

Motivation is a key factor to gear up all Success that come with different ventures in LIFE but it is not packed in all Love like things. So we need to distinguish between our loves of other Human Beings without applying and conditions. Then we also need to make a priority list of our Love Bonding that is associate with other material gains and attainments. 

Some People like to say that they have Unconditional Love for everyone, and it carries a way weight. But is it possible for everyone to carry that mind-set as applicable in each case, and with everyone. It is a common Human Psyche that we start expecting the return from others when we do some Good Deeds for others. If we show Love and Affection then we want a payback in any form like a big Thank YOU or the Love in return. It can be all Platonic or a Physical Acquisition of someone!

I have heard many people saying that they believe in Unconditional Love but then they are seen complaining about their relationship. They keep on blaming others for not fulfilling their demands of love and bonding that they expected. So it is a duality in the situation, and in fact an irony that needs to be mended. If we say something then we must mean it. Otherwise it is far more effective to be straightforward and ask others that we need a return when we want!

It is matter of Hot Debate among my fellows as I am Vocal of the Philosophy that Human Instincts always demand some kinds of benefits in return. Whether it is in verbal form or a GIFT or a Love claim in return. Even human beings love God Almighty for the sake of Heaven in Afterlife, and don’t you think that it is another kind of bond and claim that something is required in return of all devotion and deep hearted Prayers and Piety. I want to know your opinions on this theory!!